I’m now blogging on citydaygame.com as Vaughn.
I’m now blogging on citydaygame.com as Vaughn.
Some crib notes from Patrice O’Neal:
To the girl:
“You look like your breath stinks”
“You sit on that hairy fish”
“You are not tuned into rejection from a man, on a daily basis”
Leather/fur shoes/boots – “Extinct animal shoes?”
She mentions money – “What is this an american express commercial?”
“I know what this is, it’s very cute”
“I like how mad you are getting”
Lessons to learn:
“Get used to animosity”
“Tease her – turn hate into love”
“I don’t hang out with any dudes that can’t get pussy”
After a tease:
“It’s like when you are a kid and you punch the girl you like in the arm, I just didn’t know what to say, because you are cute.”
“It’s like food, we need to eat, but it ain’t necessarily delicious”
“If she’s not giving it to you don’t want it”
“Women don’t wanna lead – what suggestion do they have, about anything?”
“Good soldiers, not good generals”
“They are not your friends, women looks at a guy to lead them, want to be led by a guy who can lead – or will disrespect him”
“Women need emotions to function – they feed off of that”
“Women arbitrarily say things they feel”
“Stop being a victim”
“Women are never attracted to man that’s not better than her”
“Whatever she’s “better” as – is what she’s attracted to”
I went to Kiev again, this time with only 1 wing. (Thur to Sun) We found an apartment near the main walking street. Since I’ve been having a lot of success recently, and I banged 2 girls last time ( 1 month ago) in 4 days I didn’t really feel any pressure for results.
We did a little Daygame, I got a handful of numbers, none of which were as hot as the prospects I had been long gaming. My long game prospects: One cute slim dark haired girl (Piano girl), who was almost a yes girl, but logistics got in the way before I could meet her, 1 super hot blonde girl (motorbike girl), 1 x 17 year old virgin, and I also had the 2 girls I banged last time (green coat girl, and sexy heels girl), both hot.
So I had 2 days of double dates, our plane arrived late on the Thursday, I’d initially planned to meet her Thur but the meet got pushed to Fri.
After daygame I met piano girl for dinner, (Sushi near my apartment), I was instantly attracted to her, very cute, and hotter than I remember. After the sushi she took me for a walk, showed me some parts of Kiev that I’d missed, we got pretty close, and I tried to kiss her, but she kept pulling her head to the side. There was loads of kino, arm in arm walking, I was pushing her around, teasing her, actually the whole experience were great. I teased her about the Ukrainian flag, why are there Swedish flag every where? 🙂
The headache came with the transition to see the next girl (sexy heels girl), so I texted the her girl that I was going to be late, then the piano girl wanted to come with me almost to where I was going to meet her. Never reverse the polarity and let the wires cross. So, I had to pretend my apartment was in the opposite direction, say goodbye to the piano girl, wait 5 mins and follow behind her, to meet the 2nd girl. Thankfully, she had gone, and it was on with sexy heels, (I had banged her last time), and I banged her again that night, a great great night. (I should write another post about this)
Next morning I said goodbye to sexy heels to meet the piano girl again, we walked around some parks, and looked at some local art, had lunch and again there was massive attraction. She wanted to kiss me but wouldn’t, she was floppy and draped over me in the bar where we ate. Finally got a kiss, but I guessed the bang wasn’t on, so went to meet the 2nd girl again. More fun with her in Buddah bar, then back to my apartment.
We fell asleep before banging, and my taxi to the airport was due at 7am, I woke up at 6:45, and go in 20 mins of sex before the driver started calling.
Kiev is awesome, dates, kissing and banging two very hot girls.
Some days you hit the streets and despite having a loaded gun there is just nothing to shoot at. Daygame this weekend gone was pretty terrible around central London for me, all the hot girls had been sucked up to some other place, or maybe they are all just got fat and ugly.
None the less, I got 5 numbers, couple I won’t text as they are 5/6’s and a lot less hot than either the Italian or the Bulgarian. The rest I’d bang but am not really prepared to put any substantial effort into it (3 girls). 1 English/Chinese 19, 1 American/Egyptian (early 20s) and 1 out and out American girl (early 20s).
The two Americans I pushed quickly for the date (within 3 texts, see below).
My current text format is this:
Me: “Hi <nickname>, nice but random to meet you, Are you always so friendly to strangers? 😉 Cromlock”
Girl: “Do you meet many girls like this?” – Normally they ask if I meet many girls on the street – it’s predictable.
Me: “Only the cute ones, 😉 ps. are you a wine or cocktails girl?” – Date seed.
Girl: “Blah, blah” – They normally say one or the other, or both or neither – doesn’t matter.
Me: “Ok, I know a great bar, <wine/cocktails> <day1>/<day2> <time>? ;)” – I always give a choice of 2 days – and they are at least 2 days away.
Girl: “Confirm / No answer/ Refuse ”
They now have 3 options:
Me: “Lets’s meet at <venue> ps. Dress cute so we match ;)” – Confirm location. You have a date!
Girl: “Ok, see you there, I will dress cute!”
2. NO ANSWER
Wait until the day of the 2nd date option you gave them or day before and send them:
Me: “Too slow, snooze you lose, got other plans ;)” – then roll off for 3 days and re-engage.
Wait 3 days then re-engage, rinse-repeat until you are bored of texting them.
Yeah, boring, but it seems to work.
What a day, actually opened only a few sets, but rolled around London. Hit some of the posher areas and even went into Harrods to do some game. Harrods was absolutely manic, and I wasn’t really feeling it.
Midday got the number for a cute Saudi/Lebanese girl, text her and tried to push for the evening date, but she didn’t seem up for it so rolled off. Then in a Cafe got the number for a cute blonde Russian girl (yet to tick that off) this was in a pret near Harrods, I was a bit nervous, so am hoping that it will come across as “genuine”. We’ll see if I can get her out. She’s an 8.5, and was really quite friendly.
I think that number pushed my state back up, I hit a massive downer before that and was struggling to open. After a sandwich with my wing I martialed my resources and we hit the streets again, by this time it was early evening. Almost immediately a two set of spanish looking girls (complete with map in hand) came towards us. She IOI’d me massively, I even turned to watch her and she turned too. ( I walked into an old couple).
I ran in, one was Italian and the other Spanish, they were visiting London for a few days and had just finished a day of site seeing. We bounced them to a bar for a cider, general chat, then I spiked and started poking her. She responded massively, my wing took his outside whilst she smoked. I then did the look into the eyes game for 10 seconds and don’t smile with mine, she loved it and I kissed her.
We bounced them to another bar, I pulled her in for a kiss on the way, more touching at the bar, then I pulled her downstairs to the toilet (there’s another bar downstairs, lets go for a quick drink there). I pulled her into the toilet, it was on immediately, pushed her against the wall, choked her a bit, tits out, cock out, she has rubbing it, but wouldn’t have sex as she was on her period… damn. She then jerked me off, it went all over her horse-riding boots (where did you park your horse in London?).. she spent 5 mins cleaning it off.
Back upstairs, more sex talk, about putting her naked in a cage, she’d had a threesomes too, with boys and girls.. Got the number and left them to go to Primark for last minute shopping, then they were going for dinner.
What a day!
Pre-game I was persistent but in a needy way, over-investing in interactions and trying to entertain the girl. “why don’t you respond to my texts?”
Post game, when I realised that i was kinda OK with girls, my ego got a boost and I stopped being persistent, I was too good for them, so they didn’t deserve my attention.
“why should I text her again if she hasn’t bothered to reply”..
Both are not the most efficient way of getting girls, nowadays I’m being persistent without being needy. I’ve heard accounts from girls about them sleeping with a guy just because he was more persistent than her other suitors. The guy just wouldn’t give up, and got his reward. Hound that pussy!
So she doesn’t respond to your text?, who cares, you are not that special and neither is she. She takes an age to respond?, wait the same length of time and then respond. She doesn’t write much in her texts?, do the same. Mimic their style of text,
but keep pushing them down the road to the date.
Protecting your value should come 2nd to getting her out on a date, better to risk your ego being hit and investing a little in her by asking her out for a quick drink than not. All she can do is say no, or not respond, so then roll-off and re-engage a week or two later.
Keep going until she either blocks you, tells you to fuck off or stops replying completely.
Better to lose because you tried too hard than not trying hard enough.
About a month ago, I opened a girl sat on a bench waiting for the tube. I’d noticed her walk down the steps, very pretty in tight black jeans. It was my 2nd open, so I wasn’t really warmed up.
She was carrying a Sainsburys orange plastic back, I opened her with something about her very stylish expensive orange bag…
Actually the whole set was pretty awkward, and I went away with the number but not much expectancy that she would get back to me.
1 hour later she’s sent me the text.. “I guess this is the guy from the tube”.
I did two dates with her before banging her on the third. 1st date I almost got her back to mine in a taxi, We were on the taxi back, she was a bit drunk, and I actually pulled back as I felt it wasn’t really on and I risked burning it down by over-escalating.
2nd date we did a couple of drinks in Nottinghill. I walked her back to my place. Took me 10 mins to get her in the door,
“Just come into the corridor, it’s cold out here, and dangerous”
“You may as well come up, I need to charge my phone, we’re not having sex”
She came in, lots of kissing, but she wouldn’t take her shoes off.
Got her tits out and some over jeans pussy rubbing, but she seemed determined not to bang.
Third date we went near her place, two drinks in cocktail bar. She didn’t like the bar I told her “I don’t care, I like it, it’s my kinda place”.
I also didn’t fill any of the silences, waited for her to speak. I went immediately sexual asking what colour her panties were.
After the drinks, I pulled her to a local park, we kissed and ran around in the dark. I slapped her ass, poked her, kissed her and pushed her around.
I asked if she had anything to drink at hers, she said she did.. “Bulgarian tequilla”. I said lets go, I want to try it. We got into a cab, we didn’t talk the whole way, held her hand and let the tension build. Lowered my voice tone and I shut up.
At hers, about 30 mins of “relax time”, I fractionated between being interested in her, and putting on music. Within 2 hours we were banging. No real LMR. Good sex..
I asked her when she had decided to fuck me, she said after the first date, but she wanted to make me wait to not appear easy. 😉
It’s been a while since I posted, my game has come on with a run of success, failures and stories:
There are some good stories behind most of these which I’ll get around to writing about.
Greedy, want more.
30 opens today, and a shit load of mixed responses. My ego took a battering, but managed to push through and hit “state”. 2 solid numbers, but not the quality I would go for normally, one an Australian 19 year old, and one early 20’s Slovakian singer. I’m actually not really bothered about either as I believe my SMV is higher than both.
I also realised my work rate is sub par, met up with a wing and a daygamer who has been doing it for 2+ years. One of the main things I noticed was that his work rate was at least 50% above mine. He opens girls and really takes every advantage he can, every possible set he can open, he will.
My stop also isn’t good enough, I don’t use my hands enough. To really get them to stop, I also ran out of things to say a few times, and went into boring hairdresser question mode. He also demo’d some of his text game to me, and frankly mine is a bit shit, so I need to work on that.
A good day though, I really pushed it, from 2pm until 10pm. 8 hours. yeah.
Keen to show off my new daygame skills to Tim, one of my best friends, we headed into central London. Initially I met him under the guise of doing a bit of shopping and catching up over a coffee.
We headed to a coffee shop, shot the shit for an hour and got onto the topic of daygame. I have known Tim since college, he was the first person to introduce me to classic style/mystery method game. He knows some game and has had a succession of hot girl friends, most of which he meets through salsa classes.
Fair play to him, some have been real stunners. So I showed him my full week of dates coming up, the pictures of the girls I was on dates with and all from cold approach in the street. I suggested to him some daygame, I explained the basics, stop, compliment, stack assumptions, spike, vibe, hook, comfort.
We then spotted a daygamer on Oxford Street, we followed the guy for a bit and watched him open a couple of sets. My friend mentioned how it looked like the daygamer wasn’t “doing very well and it looked boring” and that if it were him he’d be standing closer to the girl. I explained that most daygame sets are actually pretty boring to look at, just a guy talking to a girl.
I opened a 2 set to warm up, a positive response from 2 Spanish girls (of course they had boyfriends). Thing is my friend walked on, he didn’t even watch the set, again I did it with two Italian girls sat on Argyle street eating street food. Again another very positive response, they also hit me with the boyfriend line. Tim didn’t watch the set either. So we walked down to Carnaby street, then I showed him a great daygame spot in front of whole foods.
A pretty girl with a pink leather jacket, curvy ass in tight jeans walked past. I suggested to him to open her, and gave him a line to use. He couldn’t do it, so I stepped up and opened. She was accused of being a “Barbie rock star in her pink leather jacket”, she was Italian and hooked very easily, gave me the eyes and suggested we go meet her friend. 3rd open and first solo girl, ker-ching.
Tim was nowhere to be seen, so I walked her to the bar where her two Italian friends (girl and a guy) were waiting. I walked back to find Tim and told him that she was really easy to talk to and it was on. Daygame point proven. so we walked back to the bar, and this is where it gets interesting.
He sat next to the girl and proceeded to hit on her, talking about his life, his side business, joking, flirting, eye contact. I was livid, this wasn’t traditional wing behaviour. He started to run the show, and it left me talking to her not-hot friend and the guy. Later, he takes me aside, and says he thinks he and the girl have “chemistry”, at this point I’ve barely even spoken to her, he makes it clear he wants to game her. I told him he could do what he wanted, angry to be put in that position in the first place.
After this we all went for a pizza at the girl’s suggestion, Tim and the target were getting more flirty and I was really starting to lose my state. Angry that I had done the hard work, risk rejection and open her, and even more angry that one of my best friends would try and game the girl who I opened, when if it wasn’t for me, we wouldn’t be sat there.
I couldn’t relax into the conversations, again my friend still leading it and I clammed up. I wasn’t willing to fight him for the girl as that puts her on a pedestal and would make me look like a douche. In the end, I made my excuses and left.
Here is my take:
1. Tim thought he could do daygame already, hence him not watching or opening any sets.
2. He was too anxious to open any sets but wanted to proof he could game, by gaming my target.
3. He doesn’t have any abundance in his life, so he over values interactions with pretty girls.
4. He hasn’t been laid in several months, he gets a sniff of pussy and is willing to put his best friend to the sword.
Thing is, I know if he had abundance in his life with women he wouldn’t do this. I also realise I should have pulled him up straight away on his behaviour early as possible.
I also won’t do game with him again.
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