Month: April 2015

London Latvian disaster

Had an interesting insta-drink then bounce to friends flat with two 19 year old Latvian girls, both very cute. Met them in Trafalgar square, they were already drinking (bottle of coke spiked with Vodka – so they could drink on the bus down, classy) They had been in Scotland working on a farm picking flowers for a month and were heading back to Riga that evening.

Accused them of being in a rock band, then helped them take photos sat on the Lions, hilarious as they were a bit tipsy, and I had to man-handle them up onto the platforms. Took the photos, my wing then arrived, bounced them to a bar for some drinks, couple of drinking games. My wing is a French guy who I met via a PUA website, he’s OK, maybe a little odd, he doesn’t follow any kind of model, he just opens with random stuff. I didn’t realise how weird he actually was. (more coming…)

Like this x 2 - one Brunette,  one Blonde.

Like this x 2 – one Brunette, one Blonde.

Pushed them into a Taxi to his place near Baker street, the girls were asking “where are we going, how far is it?”. Got them there, they were a bit nervous, but just said it would be a quick drink then we would kick them out. His room had a balcony, so took *my* girl there, did the “10 seconds slow count with out smiling”. Tried to kiss her, no joy. She went back to join her friend they both started dancing to some Latvian music.

Here’s where my choice of wing was bad, I could tell *his* girl wasn’t really into him. At one point she came to me on the balcony, I had a pen, so it seemed fun to draw on each others arms.

Then it came, a splash to the face, in front of the two girls, the French guy threw a glass of wine in my face. (White, so it wasn’t a complete disaster). He apologised, then said he’d been trying to throw it over the balcony. I was actually pretty shocked, full glass of wine straight in the face, all because of the green-eyed monster.

I went to the bathroom, deciding what to do. The girls were leaving in an hour, I couldn’t properly isolate mine, I was dealing with a jealous wing who couldn’t keep his shit together and has just proven that in spectacular fashion.

I went back, said goodbye to the girls and the French guy and left without getting angry, I heard he threw them out later.

There is no failure, just interesting stories.

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Tom Torero – One to one

So I decided to kick-start my one month daygame journey with a one to one taught by Tom Torero. This was last Friday, I spent 5 hours with him and man it was worth it. Despite reading all the blog posts and viewing all of the youTube videos there is nothing quite like watching a pro do it in person.

I opened over 20 sets that day, all women I would quite happily bang. My 4th set hooked easily (a very hot Hungarian girl) but this was early doors, so Tom gave me the choice to continue with him or opt to take her on an insta-date. I opted to keep with the learning process and took her contact details.

He taught the structure to my hap-hazard style, my AA melted away and flow started to kick in. Most importantly I really started to enjoy the interactions. Tom is great teacher,

Lots of sets, plenty of good interactions, most of which I self ejected and no harsh blow outs. He video’d me and we went through some of my sticking points, firstly its voice tonality, 2nd it was to “go direct” and third was to spike and tease.

I started to work on those, and by the end there were some very solid interactions, including one with a German girl. I got an audience of 2 other daygamers, Jon matrix and his wing. I took her contact details and had a fun interaction all whilst the elite of dg looked on.

It was also a weird day, a couple of other random things happened. I out-played an Italian man with a cute Polish girl, he saw our interaction and just gave up and left after trying it on with her.

I also opened two girls who turned out to be filming a documentary, the two camera crew arrived when I was mid flow to cockblock me, they were aghast that I was hitting on both girls. I told them I was greedy. 😉

We also opened girls in shops (an untapped resource). On one occasion I was sure Tom could bounce and fuck a cute girl. It was definitely “on”, he was demoing how easy a shop close was. Thankfully his teaching responsibilities came first, he number closed, but I’m sure she has a high change to feature in his next book.

A memorable day, which has set me up for the next month of day gaming.

Game on.

Be more sociable

I did my first sniper compliment on my way home for Easter. 15 minutes to kill in Kings Cross station before my train left, spotted a cute Asian girl listening to her iPod, motioned her to take out her ear buds. I fired across the compliment, “I gotta go soon as I have to get my train, but I like your style, it’s really nice”, of course she said “thanks” then off I went. Small victories, but it was good because I really didn’t want to do it and forced myself.

Chatted with a German guy and his girlfriend, an easy open as they were dressed in lederhosen and heading to a German beer fest at Ally Pally.

At the my home station I chatted to the two barista girls, asked them if they got bored of saying the same stuff. One had a name badge the other didn’t, ribbed her for not being as important as her friend. Then guessed her name as something random. They both giggled was fun, added a little bit of sparkle to their day. Hindsight, one seemed quite keen. Maybe could have number closed her.

Talked to some youngsters back from a Geology weekend away whilst I waited outside my local train station. One had a bag full of fossils and rocks. They were complaining that they were heavy, but pretty impressed with their finds.

Friday night opened two Italian girls at my local bar, with a rib about one ordering the same thing 2 days in a row, and that she should be more adventurous. One was cute, when I told her I was up from London and I lived in Nottinghill she hooked. Screwed up the interaction later by having a few too many beers. Number closed but I know it was a weak interaction. She has already flaked on text messaging.

Read the whole of Tom Toreros book on daygame whilst hungover the following day. An impressive list of lay reports, and a real eye opener for what’s possible if you dedicate your time and energies to the pursuit of something.

I also booked a 5 hour one-to-one day session with him, coming up this week.

Positives:
Some really good interactions, and a number gained. I’ve noticed I get more IOIs as I’ve started to be more masculine and slower when I walk.

Negatives:
Reliance on alcohol to be sociable in the evenings is holding me back.

Actions:
Tomorrow 5 sets.